So I went to Jillians on Saturday with Massentropy to shoot some pool. I hadn’t slept more than 2 hours after Friday nights sarge with Bling, Soccerfirst, Massentropy and myself. I didn’t get home until 5 am and I promised my dad that I’d help him with a garage sale. Anyway I forced myself to go out Saturday and I definitely suffered the consequences. I did come to the conclusion that my natural game is off the charts. I can freaking talk to anyone and banter with the best. I had the girl at Jillians laughing like a Hieena. My biggest two sticking points is approach and getting into the comfort levels with someone I just met.
So here is what I have determined. When Approaching I have to totally block out of my mind that it’s a pick-up. I have to realize I’m a social guy out making friends with the guys. Every woman has to be thought of like a guy. I also have to fail. Failure has to be accepted as a good thing. With every failure comes a step closer to success.
Another thing is getting that freaking number. I know that I can do it. I number closed before so I’m just going to do it whenever I go out.
Anyway I could have got the number from the girl at Jillians if I tried, but I didn’t and although that can be looked upon as a failure it isn’t. It can only be a failure if you actually take the steps. What I did was nothing and nothing counts as nothing. Nothing is a loss and nothing more.
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