Massentropy and I, like every Friday night, went down to Beale street. There were some sets there, but nothing too spectacular. I opened a couple, but all-in-all it was a lackluster night.I think maybe it could have been better but the energy level was less than optimal, which will always bring down the sarge. This can be tied directly with doing the same old thing day in and day out. It’s not that Beale Street is a bad sarge place, or for that matter a club like Senses, it would just seem to me that PU is the skill of social dynamics.
Social Dynamics IMHO, is not something you try and fake or become, it simply is you on your most basic levels interacting with others on their basic levels. There are no smoke and mirrors, it’s just two persons talking as they would to anyone else. It to me is the beauty of the system that got me into PU.
The naturals all go out and just talk to people, they do not try to assume this identity of something they are not. It is called natural game, because they are being the fun friendly person they are. They don’t assume the role of the collector and lover of widgets because their target does. They express their interest or distaste if that is how they feel. It’s not about becoming someone else and masking who you are, it’s about expressing your true identity and becoming that person completely, take it or leave it.
Canned routines are OK to get the ball rolling, but once you are in set your natural identity must shine forth. It is you after all that is the prize and you must be that prize. I look at it this way: A shiny green apple (By all things squishy and pink I love green apples), plumped and perfect on the outside. It’s inviting you to take a big bite out of you. Enticing you to sink your teeth inside of it. You begin to salivate thinking how once you bite into it, you can hear the cracking of the skin, the juice exploding into your mouth and dripping down your chin, ahh heaven.
Wait a minute, did I tell you a family of worms has made their home on the inside. So while it looks great on the outside, whats on the inside is uninviting and nasty. So I ask myself am I being true to myself by attempting to go out every Friday and Saturday and be that guy? Maybe not, maybe I should forget about being that guy and just be myself and go forth as who I am. I enjoy going out to the clubs and having a good fun night dancing and being crazy. I enjoy people for who they are and always through life I’ve had lots of female friends who were just friends. I am going to focus more on interactions for friendship sake and evolve my game from there.
I believe that by realizing this paradigm, that I have evolved. I am not a PUA, I’m SteveO, OZZY Osborn and I am a man of the world. I have High-Value and all I have to do is be myself and my natural game will shine through and I will achieve the desired results I seek.
I realize that there are skills that I know, super-powers if you must, but they are skills of using your persona to break through others defenses and be recognized for the value you give. I have to stop trying to be a PUA, while using PUA skills and be SteveO, Master of My Universe.
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