Last I was in Santa Monica I got to meet two of the greatest Life Style coaches (PUA) I ever had the pleasure to speak with. I have been conducting an interview series that will be broadcast soon enough, but because of this or that there are the typical Hollywood delays. I have managed to secure interviews with some intriguing Pick Up Artists and most are famous in their own rights. One in particular has a TV show and is scheduled for NYC interview at the end of August. I’m excited about that one and look forward to doing it.
I will say that while discussing topics with these guys, they all seem to have different insights and while so diverse still all of them offer a common thread. Be comfortable and love yourself, and you will exude confidence. Be passionate about who you are and what you do and this will personify you as a confident man. Don’t try and become somebody else, just be the best of yourself. Most importantly though, whatever you do make an impact, whether its a good impact or a bad impact, just make an impact. Be memorable!
With that said I think a lot of us are always going to wonder what exactly does it mean to make an impact. I’ve seen one friend in particular who likes to try and start fights when we have gone out. Another friend and I have made a decision that this is not the behavior that is acceptable to us and therefore will no longer hang out with this other friend. This is not the definition of bad impact, this is the definition of ignorance.
When I was interviewing Jae Ellis we talked about something he described as using the awkwardness of the situation to propel you ahead of everybody else. I asked him what exactly he meant and I understood it like this: You basically see a woman that you like, say a hired gun. Now of course she is at work and for her she gets hit on all the time. Most guys would not care and in today’s dynamics with the VH1 Pick Up Artist Show and Mystery’s new found fame there are many more guys who suddenly think they are PUA’s and therefore many more who are approaching. I’ve read all the complaints and gripes about these guys on most of the seduction communities forums and I have to tell you it perplexes me. I’ll get into that in another post, but for now, just understand that many more guys are approaching the hired guns and most will crash and burn.
The one thing however they are not doing is recognizing that the situation, regardless of how common place is still awkward for them at work. Call this out to them, let them know that you are socially aware and you understand that they are at work. Say something along the lines of “I know this is awkward because you’re at work and yet I always believed that I should let people know whats on my mind. I have noticed you walking around out here and I just wanted to let you know I think your very beautiful. (PAUSE…. ) So what’s your name?
If you say this with confidence I guarantee you will get her name and she will ask you yours. It has not failed yet for me. Of course coming from me is not the best source, you need to do yourself a favor and go to www.AskRomeo.com and sign up for Jae’s course. I am not an affiliate and I am not making any money by telling you this. I tell you this because I believe it to be quality and beneficial. The guys at AskRomeo.com are incredible and just awesome. They are genuine and their programs blow everyone else’s away in my opinion.
I can’t wait till the interview is released. I know the video of Valentino will blow your socks off. There is so much quality in the Valentino video, just watching it will change most guys states. You could sell that video for hundreds and it would be a bargain. I’m telling you guys I can barely contain myself its that good.
I want to make sure you understand what I mean by calling out the awkwardness of the situation. Now I have a weight issue, in case you have not noticed, and if I was to meet a babe I would tell her if she was lucky she would get to rub the Bhuda by the end of the night. Women love it! The thing is you have to be super confident to get away with this. The very statement itself is super confident. What it’s doing is setting yourself apart from every other guy by letting her know you are comfortable and confident about who you are.
Lately I have seen pretty much every other guy also wearing Couture shirts and jeans. Peacocking is supposed to set you apart not make you look like everybody else. I try and dress a bit punk with a cross of uber cool. So like torn jeans and chains with $150 Florshiens and a silly T-shirt under a bowlers shirt while wearing a dress jacket. It sounds strange, but it sets you apart.
The key to this entire post is to make an impact. Sometimes making an impact is making a woman mad at you. It’s OK! Everyone will not always like you and not everyone will appreciate your humor either. Hardly anybody understands my humor, and you think I give a flying fuck. Hell no I don’t. There are times I have used a neg stack (again another post) on a hired gun and they will hate me. You can only do a neg stack on a hired gun and when it works she will be butter in your hands, but oh man, when it doesn’t son’t ever go back. Unless you want spit and piss in your food.
Just remember that if you want to make an impact be very cool with yourself and understand that you will not be able to please everybody. Have fun with life and as such others will be impacted by your passion for who you are. Don’t take yourself to seriously.
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