What amazed me most was that there were two trains of thought when I announced my intentions. One, from 99% men was of astonishment and near anger. How could I do something like this? Was something messed up in my inner game? Did I have a brain tumor I was wearing a hat to hide? The other 99% females was it’s about time! You must have figured out woman really want romance, blah, blah, blah… Yeah I’m listening to that CRAP!

First off I didn’t say I was going to roll up my cock and put it away somewhere in cold storage. I didn’t say I was going to stop fucking every chick that met my fancy, and sure as hell I aint stopping loving that wonderful Pink and Squishy, warm and wet, soft and enveloping area of a woman us men call a pussy:). I’m not sure what idiot dreamed all this up, but fuck, get your head out your ass. OK enough of the cursing for this blog. One of my goals is to stop cursing so much and start lying more.

Anyway I figured it would be understood why I was leaving PUA behind and start thinking more forward, but I was wrong. You see, to me Pick-Up is very limited in its thinking. I mean I know a bunch of Pick Up Artists that are considered masters in their fields. There are guys who I always seem to really connect with and have an understanding of them more than I do of others. I mean I like Mystery and guys like him, but I can’t say that he would be my friend if we lived close. I wouldn’t say guys like that wouldn’t either but I’m more inclined to natural guys who don’t use gimmicks and tricks to get what they want, but more like people like Alex Alman and Jae Ellis. Some of the nicest guys I have met in pick-up and normal too.

I see guys who attempt to be someone else when they do pick-up, someone fake, just to get laid and sorry my friends, getting laid is all its about. There are times for sex, and yeah I will admit, it most of the time, but to get interesting, you need to be interested. Let me repeat that, to get interesting, you need to be interested. The passionate confident male is always interested in interesting things. Its about taking in what life has to offer and appreciating it. I felt limited with this respect doing pick-up!

It started out as a life lesson when I read DYD from David D and then Mystery. I made that connection that so many of us do. Lets face it, many guys just don’t get it at all! The thing was though as my game got better and better on the outside, I noticed that more and more things on the inside started creeping and crawling until my inner game was filled with creepy crawlers eating at my brain. It almost seems like an oxymoron, but gaming women was corrupting my personal confidence. I believe I was starting to become more and more ingrained into being a pick-up artist rather than living and experiencing life to its fullest.

I have seen so many guys in this niche start to loose their identities in the hopes of becoming a ladies man, but I challenge this notion. Isn’t one of the reasons you got into pick-up was because you were deserving a relationship. Now it just seems like everything you are doing is about gaming, while your personal identity slips away. I have seen many a man, good people, completely change and become someone else. I am not anybody else, I am just JunkyFungus, but a whole lot smarter than I was a couple of years ago. Of course I plan to fuck my way through Memphis, but at the same time I plan to also seek out life.

Today’s blog is about the significance of eye contact and how important it is as an ALPHA male to make and keep it. I read a book by Barbara and Alan Pease: The Definitive Book of Body Language which I highly-recommend to anyone looking to improve their game. A key element to making eye contact is not to be creepy. Make sure you are looking into the area that is triangulated by the eyes down to the nose. Do not look away, I don’t care how difficult it might be, master this area and you master confidence. Eye contact is key.

There are a lot of PUA gurus who give conflicting advice. Some say while holding eye contact you don’t smile until she smiles. while others say you smile wherever you are always. A man who is getting laid has fun and I agree with this. Smile where you are, but not a goofy smile, but a smirk, know it all smile, like yeah I get laid more than you do. Keep the eye contact and make her look away. Uncomfortable as it might be a woman will automatically increase her desire for you when proper eye contact is made.

Now that you have done that, walk, slowly but with determination and desire. You do know whats on the other side of the room don’t you? I’m not talking about a girl man, I’m talking about what’s between her legs. Your eyes should be undressing the package in front of you and you should be giving her the once over. She should know that you are rating her worthiness, she should be very aware of it. Walk with your shoulders back, head up a notch, cocky, an ALPHA, never break the eye contact. Let her break it. When she smiles you smile more.

Well, like I was saying, I read allot still and it always amazes me why some guys are getting into Pick-Up. I guess when I started I wanted to have grudge sex with every girl I met. I often did and “amazingly” I never had an opportunity to have a relationship with any of those women ever again. Sure there were the ones who wanted nothing more for me to take out all my frustrations on their vaginas, in which case I was sure to comply. The thing about that is that other than leaving her with crippled legs, a sticky belly and a bunch of empties I really left no other type of value.

There was this one girl, who very much could have been girlfriend material. She was sweet, had a little freaky streak, was very much a lady when it counted, a smile that radiated love and affection, but to her all I ever will be is her F***-Buddy. I actually feel really sad about it, because in my heart I know she could’ve been more. Not being a wussy though I continue to appease my sexual appetite on her womanly charms. I take out all my frustrations as I bend her over the sofa and drive home the point that I can never have her in any other way. Perhaps Roissy might call me a freaking beta, and maybe in this instance I am portraying beta attributes.

The thing is now though, I have been doing something a bit different. Not just with her, but with all my girls. I’ve discovered that the ALPHA male is not just a guy who has his fill of tail. He isn’t just the guy that bangs every girl he meets that he wants to. I won’t try to define what ALPHA is here in this blog in one blog post. An ALPHA male, after all cannot be defined that way, an ALPHA male is ever growing. He is alive and perpetually increasing his knowledge, world wisdom, creativity, charm all the things that make him so likable. The ALPHA male is a guy that always leaves everyone he meets a little better than before they met him. We are the worlds Kane in Kung Fu, traveling from place to place our wisdom leading others to always do the right thing. Even the enemy who ultimately defeat themselves in all the Kung Fu episodes, even though some require a good Hason Chop to the Neck are left better off than when they started. He leaves everyone with VALUE.

I remember reading a post on a popular pheromone forum, where a boy-child says that he will never aspire to be an ALPHA male and have to always be a jerk to females. It’s not in his nature to be mean to women. So where did he come up with that asinine idea? It’s not to hard to figure it out if you are a regular reader of all the PUA forums out there. I am in awe at how some boys have made it this far along in life. Not surprisingly that they get involved into Pick-Up so they can at least get laid. I wonder, I really do, if its a good idea to teach such wisdom to a child who by my account seed should die off. At first I was a bit taken back by it all, but then I figured it out. They might study the art of Pick-Up, but in most instances they will not get far with the attitude they have. After a while most PUA either learn to lead the world into interactions that will make the world better, or they whither and die.

I believe now that most of us start out with a sense that we can finally get back at all the wrongs that were done to us in HS by all the babes that rejected us, or worse put us into the dreaded friend zone. When I started out in seduction, that’s exactly what I wanted to do, then after a year of banging away at the Memphis elite, the Hollywood Beautiful, the El Lay wannabes, the NYC models I finally came to realize that having women as friends is awesome. I love women with all my soul. I love the way they look, talk, smell, taste, everything about them. So what is so wrong with a woman who wants to be friends anyway? As an ALPHA I am confident enough to have a woman as a friend and not be sexually interested in her.

What’s even more, on my journey of being a man, the journey that all boys take, we follow in the footsteps of the great ones before us, like Jesus, Don Juan, and most of us learn a valuable lesson from our mothers. She taught us to love and cherish women. It was her sole responsibility to pass on the amazing bonding undying love she had for us and we had for her, as a mother, as our most influential woman in our lives. Many, many men believe, erroneously that moms values taught us to supplicate and romance women, but what we have failed to see is the dimensional side to mom who taught us not only to love and cherish, but to be ALPHA. We failed miserably in that course, not by her doing but of our own. Mom taught us to always leave value, always leave someone, especially a women a little better than before you met her.

We wanted to be nice to mom, we wanted for her to love us, but mom loved us regardless of what we did. In fact mom loved us more when we are a bit ornery.